Kentucky Wedding Officiant
Your Love Story.
Your Ceremony.
From a simple "I do" to a ceremony filled with your story, I will help you celebrate in a way that feels right for you. Together, we can create something traditional, modern, faith-based, secular, or uniquely your own.
From how you first met and fell in love to the funny stories, special memories, shared interests, family, faith, and experiences that brought you to your wedding day, those personal details can be thoughtfully woven into your ceremony—creating moments that can bring smiles, laughter, emotion, and maybe even a few happy tears.
Your relationship has its own story.
Your wedding ceremony should tell it.
LGBTQ+ FriendlyWhat We Offer
Ceremonies for Every Love Story
Traditional
Time-honored vows and classic ceremony structure.
Modern
Contemporary, personalized ceremonies for today's couples.
Elopement
Intimate and meaningful — just the two of you.
Sign & Go
Efficient, legal, and beautifully simple.
Non-Denominational
Spiritual but not tied to any single religion.
Interfaith
Honoring two traditions in one unified ceremony.
Humanist
Celebrating love through a secular, human-centered lens.
Civil
A dignified, legally recognized ceremony.
Commitment
A heartfelt declaration of love without legal formality.
Vow Renewal
Celebrate your journey and reaffirm your promises.
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"Every couple deserves a ceremony as unique as their love."
— Kevin
Wedding Officiant
Commissioned Kentucky Colonel
The Commonwealth's highest civilian honor, awarded by the Governor of Kentucky.
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Hi, I'm Kevin
LGBTQ+ FriendlyI believe that your wedding ceremony should be the most personal, meaningful moment of your entire day — not a rehearsed script, but a true reflection of who you are as a couple.
As an ordained minister, certified officiant, and celebrant, I bring the credentials, the experience, and the heart to lead ceremonies of every kind — from intimate elopements to grand celebrations.
Whether you're planning a traditional ceremony, a modern celebration, or something entirely your own, I'm here to make it unforgettable.
Add-On Rituals
Unity Ceremonies
Elevate your ceremony with a symbolic ritual that gives your guests a moment to witness and remember. Each unity ceremony can be woven seamlessly into any ceremony type.
Handfasting
An ancient Celtic tradition where hands are bound together with ribbon or cord, symbolizing the binding of two lives.
Sand Pouring
Two separate sands are poured together into one vessel — a beautiful visual metaphor for two lives becoming one.
Cord of Three Strands
Three cords are braided together representing the couple and their shared values — a deeply meaningful ritual.
Unity Candle
Two individual flames come together to light a single candle, symbolizing the merging of two families into one.
Anniversary Capsule
Seal letters, photos, and mementos in a time capsule to open on a future anniversary — a gift to your future selves.
Real Couples
Love Stories Told Here
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Blake & Brook Gaylord
Kind Words
What Couples Are Saying
"Colonel Kevin officiated our wedding on September 26, 2026. He was absolutely amazing and super kind. I went into wedding planning blind and knew nothing about ceremonies. Our ceremony turned out perfectly and he helped us every step of the way! We specifically did hand fasting and it was beautiful! The crowd also loved it but now it's a keepsake we can have and hang up!"
Hanna M.
Handfasting Ceremony
"Kevin was wonderful! He was very helpful and answered every question we had for our elopement. Anything you would want he will make it happen, from an elopement to a huge wedding he will take care of you. He also took a group picture of everyone who attended our elopement! You will not be disappointed!"
Kimberly Coffey
Elopement
"Great minister would highly recommend Kevin. Very positive and very informative."
Christy Ober
Wedding Ceremony
"This man was absolutely the best!! He had a great personality, was very professional. We absolutely made the right choice by having him officiate our wedding."
Kathy Lucas
Wedding Ceremony
"We added the handfasting ritual and Kevin explained and performed it so beautifully. It felt ancient and meaningful and completely ours. Could not have asked for a better officiant."
Brianna & Marcus T.
Handfasting + Vow Renewal
"Kevin is the real deal — ordained, professional, and genuinely passionate about what he does. Our ceremony was flawless. Book him before he gets too busy!"
Nicole & Ryan P.
Civil Ceremony
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A ceremony for every kind of celebration
Choose the level of ceremony preparation and support that fits your plans. Each package includes Kevin as your officiant and completion of the marriage license for a legal wedding. Personalization, consultations, keepsakes, and rehearsal services are described below. Vow renewals celebrate an existing marriage and do not require a new marriage license.
Basic
Simple I Do — Sign & Go
Starting at
Ceremony up to 15 minutes
- A short ceremony with your names and preferred form of address
- Vows and an optional ring exchange
- Marriage license completion and signing
- Your chosen location within Lexington
⚠️ See witness requirement below
Essential
Intimate Celebration
Starting at
Ceremony up to 30 minutes
- A brief planning questionnaire and personalized introduction
- Ceremony wording and vows tailored to your preferences
- Phone or video consultation on request
- Your chosen location within Lexington
- Marriage license completion for legal weddings
⚠️ See witness requirement below
Signature
Your Love Story
Starting at
Ceremony up to 45 minutes
- A detailed ceremony planning questionnaire
- A fully custom ceremony incorporating your love story
- Your choice of ceremony style, readings, and tone
- Guidance with writing or selecting your personal vows
- Phone or video consultation on request
- Two rounds of script revisions
- A digital keepsake copy of your ceremony script
- Marriage license completion for legal weddings
⚠️ See witness requirement below
Premium
Ceremony and Rehearsal
Starting at
Ceremony up to 60 minutes
- Every Signature benefit
- Additional phone or video consultations on request
- Wedding rehearsal attendance for up to one hour
- One unity ceremony incorporated on request
- A printed keepsake copy of your ceremony script
- A digital keepsake copy and two rounds of script revisions
- Marriage license completion for legal weddings
⚠️ See witness requirement below
⚠️ The state of Kentucky requires two witnesses aged 18+ to be present at all ceremonies. Both witnesses will also sign the marriage certificate. Witnesses are not provided as part of my services — please plan to bring two qualifying witnesses with you.
Starting prices are based on ceremonies in Lexington–Fayette County, Kentucky. Any additional travel charges will be explained in your written quote before booking. Rehearsal timing, ceremony timing, and the services included in your package will be confirmed in your agreement.
Common Questions
What You May Be Wondering
How does personalization work?+
Your questionnaire helps me understand your ceremony preferences. Essential includes a personalized introduction and selected ceremony wording. Signature and Premium include a custom script that can weave in your relationship story, shared memories, and the people or traditions that matter to you.
Can we review our ceremony script?+
Signature and Premium include script review and two rounds of revisions. We will agree on a review and approval schedule based on your wedding date. For short-notice bookings, the schedule will be confirmed before booking.
What keepsakes are included?+
Signature includes a digital copy of the ceremony script. Premium includes both a digital copy and a printed copy. These keepsakes preserve the ceremony wording and are separate from your official marriage documents.
Can we include a unity ceremony?+
Choose from nine unity ceremony options: handfasting, sand pouring, cord of three strands, unity candle, anniversary capsule, wine or whiskey ceremony, rose ceremony, ring warming, and tree planting. Premium includes one ritual on request. Ask about adding a ritual to another package. Couples provide the materials for their chosen ritual.
What consultations are available?+
A phone or video consultation of up to 30 minutes is available on request. An in-person meeting within Lexington is available for $75 for up to one hour. Premium also includes additional phone or video consultations on request.
Do we need witnesses?+
Yes — Kentucky law requires two witnesses aged 18 or older to be present at all legal wedding ceremonies. Both witnesses will also sign the marriage certificate. Please plan to bring two qualifying witnesses. If you need help arranging witnesses, ask when you inquire so I can confirm availability and any additional cost before booking.
How do we get started?+
Send your names, wedding date, ceremony time, venue or location, and the package you are considering. I will confirm availability, answer your questions, and explain the next steps. Please allow up to 48 hours for a response. Email or the website inquiry form is the best way to reach me.
With Gratitude
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Veteran Today?
Kevin's I Do's proudly honors the men and women who have served our country. We are deeply grateful for the sacrifices of our veterans and their families — the true heroes behind every freedom we celebrate, including the freedom to love.
Let's Begin
Ready to Say
I Do?
Every great ceremony starts with a conversation. Reach out to Kevin today to check availability, ask questions, and start crafting the ceremony you've always imagined.